• Michelle Fraley

Things your grandparents would tell you about sex...that are still true today!

Updated: May 29, 2020

Some things never go out of style!

Sure, your grandparents didn't swipe right or text each other naughty pics, but they still know a thing or two about sex!

Whether the words of wisdom are 70 years old or something you just heard today, good advice about sex is always worth a listen! Here are old school tips on sexual intimacy that still hold true today.

1. Play a little hard to get: The courtship process can be fun and exciting! Don't be so quick to jump into a physical relationship. Take things slow...flirt, hold hands, kiss. A slow build will make the sexual relationship that much more meaningful when it does happen. Physical intimacy is fantastic and worth waiting for!

Put a little work into making her feel special!

2. Wooing her will never go out of style:  Foreplay happens WAY before an intimate encounter occurs and the some of the best foreplay happens outside of the bedroom.  Holding doors open, pulling out a chair, offering compliments, helping out where needed and being kind and polite to those around you all ways that you can increase your level of intimacy even before you take things to the bedroom. My women clients tell me all the time that sexual attraction and "getting in the mood" are often a result of what the man is doing hours before physical intimacy is even an option!

3. It is all about confidence: Let's get real...nothing can kill the mood quicker than feeling bad about your body! Let go of those body insecurities and own the beautiful and unique (and sexy!) human that you are! In the heat of the moment, I can promise you that nobody is paying attention to your cellulite..they are paying attention to the amazing sensations they are feeling and how delighted they are to be touching you! So push those negative thoughts about your body aside and enjoy!

About the author:

Michelle Fraley, MA, WPCC is a relationship coach and professional matchmaker and founder and owner of Spark Matchmaking & Relationship Coaching, LLC. Her mission to help people connect and maintain healthy, satisfying relationships using mindfulness and intentional love. She lives in Arizona with her husband, daughter and 4 furbabies!

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